This is how awareness works.
As you become aware, you begin to discover the energies around you and how you effect yourself when you give your energy away. This is “sexual energy” effect that Tobias speaks of. It is when you least suspect that you are most effected. This is not about being a victim. But the unaware human is buffeted about by “every wind of doctrine.” Again, no victims here, but just how the old energies work. In the new consciousness, the aware human does not fall into the trap of victimhood. Of course, their is no victim when the game is played.